Wednesday, November 24, 2010

New mom/life struggle

One of the hardest things for me as a person has always been keeping my house/apartment (hell - my bedroom when I was a teenager) clean.  I'm a slob.  And for the most part I've always been comfortable with it.  Colin is also a slob - although slightly less comfortable with it (he gets embarrassed and frustrated by it - though never changes his ways).  To be honest though, I'm definitely a bigger slob.  And again - I've never really cared.

However - we now have a 7month old baby who is starting to crawl.  So being a slob - not such a comfortable thing anymore.  I get frustrated with myself because I can't/don't keep my house clean and that is not a good thing for my baby.  I have lots of friends who say its so easy and that I just have to set my mind to it.  But they're all neat freaks.  No offense meant!  I don't have a clue how to break a habit that I've had all my life. 

It's not like I grew up in a dirty house - my parents are neat and organized and keep things clean.  And its not like I never cleaned before.  Every couple of months we would buckle down and scrub the house from top to bottom. 

I don't even mind cleaning - though its not on my list of favorite ways to spend the weekend. 

I think the biggest problem is the clutter.  I don't put stuff away.  Ever.  And when we added the baby we tripled the clutter in an already crowded and tiny apartment. 

So now I have to figure out how to change this part of my life because I want my daughter to grow up in a house that is not a cluttered mess. 

Grrrgh. 

On a happier note - Cassidy made her first forward motion crawling yesterday.  We're still mostly scooting backward - but its a start!

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