4 . . . . weeks of Weight Watchers
7 . . . . . pounds lost
7.5 . . . . total inches lost (arms, hips, bust, waist, and thighs)
8 . . . . percent of goal achieved
77 . . . . lbs left to go
So, its been a lot of hard work, and to be honest - not as much of a result as I'd like (although the inches lost was somewhat reassuring after the minimal weight loss of last week).
I'm frustrated. I don't know if its the summer, or if its just hitting a funk, or if its that I'm jealous that my husband lost 4 pounds last week by just switching from regular to diet soda (proud of him, btw - but jealous just the same).
I think part of it goes back to feeling a loss of ownership of my body.
I experienced that feeling for the first time about 4.5 years ago when I was very sick and it felt like my body was shutting down on me (and essentially parts of it were).
I felt that way again when I was pregnant and I was struggling through "morning sickness" that wouldn't go away, heartburn that lasted for months, and high blood pressure that lead to all kinds of issues and eventually bed rest.
When I think about it, I don't know that those feelings ever went away.
I certainly don't feel like myself. I hate that I get winded and am too tired to actively play with my daughter. I REALLY hate that my butt was too wide to fit down the slide with her (I admit that I cried over that one). I hate what I see when I look in the mirror. I REALLY hate what I see when I see myself in pictures or on video.
I miss not worrying about every bite that I put into my mouth. Yesterday I literally broke down over dinner. Cried like an idiot at dinner with my family and a bunch of their friends.
I know that I'm doing the right things and that I'm working hard. On a good day I can be proud of that. On a bad day - it doesn't really mean anything.
I'm not trying to bring anyone down - least of all myself. But I think I needed to talk about it - and figured my blog might just be the best place to do it.
Well, here's hoping tomorrow is a better day and that this week is (overall) a better week.
I'm so sorry you are feeling this way but I can definitely relate! Congratulations for getting this far, and good luck on the rest of your journey! I admire that you are working so very hard!
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